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How to meet people in Paris when you are new

Last updated 1 November 2026

Photo: Xenia Bunina / Unsplash

Making friends in Paris is slow: many Parisians have kept the same friends since school or university, their reserve is politeness rather than rejection, and trust is built over months in the same places. The good news is that the city is full of people who arrived alone, and the international crowd says hello first. Below are the ways to meet people here, fastest first, with what each costs and who it suits.

1. A dinner with strangers

This is the fastest way in, because everything is arranged for you: a table booked, four to six people who have never met.

  • Timeleft: dinners for 4 to 6 matched by a personality test, Wednesdays and Fridays at 20:00, drinks on Thursdays, a women and LGBTQ+-friendly dinner on Mondays and a singles dinner on Tuesdays. You need a subscription to book, you pay for the meal at the restaurant, and bookings close 13 hours before.
  • Strangrs: a French service, and Paris is its only city so far. Dinner for 4 to 6 from around 20:00, as well as drinks, coffee or a walk. You get first names and the address a few hours before, and everyone pays their own bill.
  • Dixner: tables of 6 to 10 guests plus a host they call an ambassador, for an aperitif, dinner or brunch, every week. Some offers include the menu and drinks.
  • Socials by Detor (this site): 4 to 6 people at a social table for dinner, drinks, coffee or brunch, or a small group doing one activity. We build the group from a few answers you give once, language included, so English works. A person checks every group, and the address comes the day before. Nobody sees a name until the table's chat opens, an hour before, and there are no profiles. A seat has a price per session, shown before you pay, with no membership; you pay the venue for your own food and drinks.

2. Language exchanges

This is where English speakers meet the French who want to practise on them. Polyglot Club Paris meets every Tuesday and Saturday from 20:00 to 02:00 at Le Baratin, 41 boulevard Saint-Marcel in the 13th. Entry is free with one drink minimum, and the group has more than 24,000 members on Meetup. The venue has moved before, so check it on Meetup first.

Franglish runs French-English speed exchanges in bars, for instance at the Lizard Lounge in the 1st, 19:00 to 21:00. School French is the point here, not a problem.

3. International groups and friendship apps

The first hellos come easiest from people who were new themselves. Meetup has large expat groups such as Internationals in Paris and Glocally Paris; the app is free, though some events are paid. r/SocialParis, with about 117,000 members, runs a beer night called Jeudi Bière and a monthly Vin du Mois.

The Local's list of friendship apps for France adds Frimake (free group outings), Need Sporty, UNBLND, Bumble For Friends and Knockk.

4. Volunteering, in English or in French

Serve the City Paris works in English: food distributions at least three days a week, with membership at 10 euros a month. Benenova is French and built for people who come alone, with collective missions of one to five hours.

Every September, each arrondissement holds a Forum des associations, free, where the city's roughly 75,000 associations look for members. The next round is September 2027.

5. Run crews and climbing gyms

The Paris Hash House Harriers, a "drinking club with a running problem", set off every other Saturday at 14:00. Lolë runs monthly, mostly on Sundays, and the Paris Running Club takes people by referral. KIIN, Bromance Athletic Club and Circle Run Club post their sessions on their own channels.

For climbing, Arkose has five Paris gyms. It lists no social nights, but you rest between climbs, and people talk.

6. Going out alone: bars, workshops and the apéro

A crowded bar is the hardest room in the city to meet anyone in. Pick a night with a format instead (a pub quiz, live music, a language exchange) in a part of town that is awake: Oberkampf, République and the Canal Saint-Martin, Bastille, the Marais, or Belleville for gentler prices.

A workshop works better, because your hands are busy: Wecandoo for crafts, La Papoterie, a ceramics café in the 9th and 11th, or Mazette and Drink & Paint evenings. Prices depend on the workshop.

And learn the apéro: 18:00 to 20:00 is when Parisians see friends and neighbours. Once you've met two people twice, invite them round.

7. What helps, whichever you pick

  • Go back. Being a regular counts for more than a brilliant first evening.
  • Learn enough French to order and to joke. Expat circles run in English; French friendships mostly don't.
  • Choose a small group with something to do over a crowded bar.
  • Say yes to everything in the first few months.

If you want the fastest option first: see this week's tables and meetups in Paris.

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Questions people ask

Is it easy to make friends in Paris?

No, and it isn't you. Parisians keep their school and university friends, and the reserve is protective rather than hostile. It eases after a few months of turning up at the same places, so pick one or two regular things and keep going.

Do I need to speak French to meet people in Paris?

Not at first. The international Meetup groups, Serve the City, r/SocialParis and a Socials table booked in English all run in English. For French friends, some French matters: it signals that you are staying, which is what Parisians are quietly checking.

Where do I meet English-speaking people in Paris?

At the language exchanges (Polyglot Club on Tuesdays and Saturdays, Franglish), in the international Meetup groups, at Serve the City's food distributions and at r/SocialParis meetups. A dinner-with-strangers table works too: on Socials the group always shares a language.

What are the best apps to make friends in Paris?

For open outings, The Local's list for France: Meetup, Frimake, Need Sporty, UNBLND, Bumble For Friends and Knockk. For a table rather than a feed: Timeleft (subscription), Strangrs (site in French) and Socials by Detor (pay per seat, no membership). We run Socials, so read that accordingly.

Is it safe to go to a dinner with strangers alone?

These dinners take place in public restaurants, in a group rather than one to one, which is about as safe as a first meeting gets. On Socials every booking has an SOS button and a Report button, a person reads every report, and phone numbers stay hidden in the group chat.

Pick one fast thing and one weekly thing.

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